Beep beep beep
the alarm goes off on a Sunday morning at 7:30am. "Man, you have got to be kidding me" I think to myself. Then I remember why it went off in the first place. "Gotta get to class" my brain says. "Gotta get more rest" my body says. I manage to move one hand to the covers and the fight's over, brain wins, as it usually does on the sunday class issue. I roll out of bed and the movement wakes Fae up enough to where she smiles and rolls into my spot. She's partially awake, kisses the air to me, and falls back asleep. 7:30am is a four letter word for Miss "Bring me coffee at 9:30"
I get dressed, wet my hair to get rid of the bedhead, brush hair and teeth, and roll out the door with a glass of OJ and a bagel or something carb-loaded. I drive 45 minutes to my class in South Jersey and pull up in the driveway. I am welcomed by the big black dog who has a frightening bark but almost wags his tail off once he recognizes my smell. Great black lab. I put on my gi-top, tie my white belt, get my weapons and set them against the wooden fence in the back part of the yard. Sensei and I talk about things for a few minutes, the conversation including the people showing up for the class until it's just about 9 and he has us line up to bow in.
We do some light aerobic stuff, stretching, and some breathing exercises before we work on sword. By this point, the nice shady backyard has become a lot less shady and our black uniforms are starting to absorb enough heat to make us all sweat lightly. We go through our kata in order, each of us dropping off to the side as we pass the kata we have learned to practice on our own. Sensei moves around helping people with finer points or even teaching a new kata. Repetition is the key, and it's compounded by the fact we are not in an indoor dojo, so we have to adjust for rocks, roots, sticks, even downgrades or upgrades in the yard, making training regularly essential.
We work on that for about 20 minutes and switch to bo staff. These are paired drills, not full force or full speed, but focused on the position of the staff, body, and focus so that if a situation did arise, it would simply be a effort of speed to utilize these in defense or attack. Sometimes we learn kata of staff vs sword, sometimes we next work on hanbo which is a much thinner staff around 36" long. Wicked for in close fighting.
The last part of the class, which is usually as close to an hour as possible, is jujitsu. This is the meat of our style, and up until I restarted class, my least favorite part of the class. As someone who is 6'2" tall, close in fighting is not my best approach. With long legs and arms, I want to keep people as far away as possible. Plus with the twisting moves and times when I have to duck under an arm, it's a question of "How low can big man go?" most of the time. Thankfully, there is one guy who is a little taller than me so I get a break sometimes (as does he). The thing that I have learned which has really changed my perspective on jujitsu, is the application of the technique and how doing it a 100 times over the years has trained me to react without thought. One of my friends sons is getting bigger and thought it would be funny to grab my wrist and try to pull me under in the pool. I had my arm free and had countered it before I even thought about it. I also withheld all of the strength from the technique before I could hurt him.
His wideeyed expression told me that I not only had I surprised him by getting out, but shocked him by turning it back on him. "What did you just do?" he said, his eyes still big. "I didn't do anything, my body did" I responded with a smile, letting his wrist go. So what did he do? He grabbed me again, and this time I just shoved him underwater
When asked why I take classes, why I study martial arts, I usually answer the same way - to be ready for anything. Do I think I'm going to have a sword handy, or a staff? No, but if I did have something similar, I'd know what to do with it. Knowing the hand to hand, that's the applicable stuff, and something I'm having a much better appreciation for.
Why did I get out of bed on Sunday morning at 7:30am? Besides being a place to workout some of my stress, I did it so that I can always be ready. Knowing what I could do is the important thing for me, and something that makes me feel better as a provider and protector of my family and what is important to them. Do I feel the need to hurt people? No. Do i like throwing people around and being thrown? Hell yes, at this point, it's almost a necessity.
What do you do to get your excess energy out or what gets you all fired up?
July 13th, 2009 - 12:11
I tend to swear at people behind their back or blog about them, because I’m a non-confrontational person
I’m impressed that you willingly drive 45 minutes to get to your class. Although I guess on a Sunday morning, there’s no traffic.
And yeah, with those Jersey housewives and their table flipping, you’ve got to be ready for anything! (Bet your wife knows what I’m refering to here)
July 13th, 2009 - 13:21
I have to tell you, I loved this post. It paints a vivid picture of your state of mind and the events leading up to getting to class. I’ve read lots of your stuff describing your martial arts classes, but in this one, I felt like I was sitting in that back yard, watching the class work on their techniques. You’re a great writer. But I knew that already.
What I do to get that excess energy out is RUN! I’ve finally learned not to be afraid of the pain or discomfort. I finally get what people mean when they describe that burn that comes from overcoming an obstacle in the routine. It is great for the body and the mind.
July 13th, 2009 - 14:32
The real question is where do I get some extra energy???
Oh so many things get me fired up … mainly the stupid things that stupid people do. Which is why there is a WTF? Wednesday.
July 13th, 2009 - 14:45
It’s an awesome class, and I really like the guy who runs it.
And yeah, I know the reference, my wife loves the show and she ‘makes’ me watch it
July 13th, 2009 - 14:50
The real question is, do all you Jersey guys carry around big wads of bills in your pocket?
Send me an e-mail addy for the recipe. I couldn’t find one on your blog.
July 13th, 2009 - 15:04
@terri – thanks. I have to walk a fine line of writing about it and explaining the techniques. the latter is a big nono.
mattcushing@gmail.com will work. and btw for anyone getting this reply – go to Cocotte’s website, those blueberry scones look awesome.
@rhonda – if you force yourself in the beginning, you’ll find it starts to store up. Stop working out and it goes away. Talk about a crappy catch 22.
@Cocotte – yeah right. Fuggedaboudit. I wish I did
July 14th, 2009 - 14:58
What gets me fired up? Reading your blog.
Seriously, 7:30am on a Sunday?
I do a lot of running to blow off extra energy. With sunshine most of the time, running is great around here…
July 16th, 2009 - 16:04
i have no extra energy. and wish I could sleep til 9:30.