I will squeeze him and love him and call him…
Aidan.
"Yes buddy?"
"Can I kiss her on the head?"
"Yeah man, as much as you want"
I have to say, that he has grown into a young man of unbelievable thought, feeling, and caring. Aidan turned 13 on Sunday, and I have to say, rather than feeling weirded out because he's getting so big, I'm proud and happy of the young man he is becoming.
He's good, and he's funny, and he's one of my best friends. I found I was missing him more and more because I work so late so I read to him one night when he was having trouble falling asleep. It's two years later and I still read to both of them every night.
He makes me want to be a better Father, a better friend, and a better Dungeon Master. Introducing him to something I enjoyed at his age was wonderful, but we just had the third D&D birthday sleepover in a row, so I must be doing something right.
His capacity for love and care is right up there with the amazement I feel when he does something I never thought he'd be capable of. I think it's become his mission in life to surprise and delight me, and he's done an amazing job of it so far.
Aidan Alexander Cushing, you were the universe's gift to Mommy and I, and I love you more than I can every express in words.
Domo Arigato for being you dude, you're the best.
Love,
Daddy

April 12th, 2010 - 13:42
Happy Birthday to your son and wife!
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April 12th, 2010 - 18:51
I absolutely 100% agree about your son’s capacity for love and caring. To this day, every time he looks at me and says, “I love you, Aunt Amy,” it melts my heart. His sincerity and caring are so genuine. It’s such a gift.
I wish I could have been there to celebrate both his birthday and Fae’s. But I am honored to know them both, and so thrilled that you express your love for them so openly on your blog.
April 14th, 2010 - 18:46
Happy birthday to your guy! My younger son is 13 – it’s a delightful age.
April 14th, 2010 - 20:12
This almost brings tears to my eyes. Yes, you are lucky to have such a wonderful son, but he is lucky too. He’s lucky to have a dad who is capable of expressing the full extent of the love he feels for him.
Happy Birthday Aidan!
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